Here is our favorite article chosen from the September 2012 issue of Saskatoon Wellbeing Magazine. This month's article is about sleep. Most of us take this luxury for granted; we don't realize how important a good night sleep really is to what we do the following day. It can affect your work, relationships with people and even be the deciding factor of whether to make it to the gym or not. This article touches base on a side of sleep deprivation we might not be acknowledging.
Sleeping Separately: Why More Couples Are Going To Sleep In Different Beds
by Sarah Stefanson
She needs complete silence to get to sleep. He likes the white noise of a fan in the background. The fan also keeps him cool, but she likes to be nice and warm. She needs darkness and he can fall asleep in a fully lit room. He tends to go to sleep early and wake up early, while she’s just the opposite. He twitches in his sleep. Oh, and he snores.
They have tried different tactics to solve their sleep differences. She sings the praises of her sleep mask. They tried having different blankets for each of them. Schedule adjustments. Earplugs. No matter what they attempted, the glaring truth was staring them in the face: they were not meant to sleep in the same room.
Many couples are experiencing similar dilemmas and most are hesitant to resort to separate bedrooms, but it is a growing trend for partners to split up at bedtime. From 2001 to 2005, the National Sleep Foundation found that the numbers of American married couples that sleep in separate beds rose from 12 per cent to 23 per cent. The Sleep Council of England reports that 1 in 4 Brits habitually spend their nights in spare rooms or on sofas. Want more proof? The National Association of Home Builders says there have been more and more requests for homes built with two master bedrooms. In fact, they estimate that by the year 2015, 60 per cent of all custom-built homes will have his and hers bedrooms.
Proponents of separate bedrooms have several good arguments to back them up and even some scientific evidence.
Sleep specialist Dr. Neil Stanley revealed at the British Science Festival in 2009 that couples that sleep in the same bed may experience 50 per cent more sleep disturbances than those who sleep separately